Recently I have been going through some pictures my sister, Diana and her husband scanned into their computer from slides my dad took with his camera. These pictures brought back memories of faces, places, activities and clothing we worn then.
One picture brought back a memory long forgotten. We were celebrating my sister, LoRene's third birthday. On the wall behind the table was our family home evening chart. I really did not even remember at first that we had one of those.
I believe all of my siblings and I enjoyed family home evening for the most part. We probably had it for years before my memories of it began. But I do remember that we held it on Thursday evenings after attending Primary and having dinner. The Church had not yet designated a night for it.
Just a year before this picture was taken, my parents were in a terrible car accident. Both sets of my grandparents spent some time taking care of us kids while Mom and Dad recuperated in the hospital. I remember one Thursday evening. We all wondered, "What about family home evening? Who would give us family home evening?" I mentioned to my Grandma and Grandpa Anderson that we wanted to have it. They consented to help us, and we struggled through it not really knowing what to do. Grandma and Grandpa sang a few songs with us, we said a prayer and went to bed.
It is amazing how habits can dictate our lives. If they are good habits, we are certainly ahead.
Kevin and I continued the tradition of family home evening with our children, and I hope they enjoyed it as we did. They now carry on the tradition with their children too.
In 1915 the Church came out with the following statement and promise:
"We advise and urge the inauguration of a 'home evening' throughout the Church, at which time fathers and mothers may gather their boys and girls about them in the home and teach them the word of the Lord. They may thus learn more fully the needs and requirements of their families, at the same time familiarizing themselves and their children more thoroughly with the principles of the gospel of Jesus Christ. This home evening should be devoted to prayer, singing hymns, songs, instrumental music, scripture reading, family topics, and specific instruction on the principles of the gospel and on the ethical problems of life, as well as the duties and obligations of children to parents, the home, the Church, society, and the nation.
If the Saints obey this counsel, we promise that great blessings will result. Love at home and obedience to parents will increase. Faith will be developed in the hearts of the youth of Israel, and they will gain power to combat the evil influences and temptations which beset them."
I miss the opportunity to have family home evening with my small children, but once in a while we get invited to share the evening with them and their children. We love it!